Bedroom Closet

I know I’ve not written anything of consequence in here yet. Life has conspired in that fashion, as it always does at times like this, when I’d rather be writing or playing or doing something other than what I end up doing. Hearing about why I haven’t been here isn’t why you’re here, so we’ll just say that I’ll be rather sporadic for a little while and please forgive me for that. Hear Hear.

One thing I have been doing in the time alloted is to do some research. This is, as I think I’ve said in some form or another, going to be a chronicle of sorts on the subject of the sexuality of myself and my soon-to-be wife… – I think I’ve referred to her as my wife before here, but she is not that yet, and the event is one of the (most welcome) time restrictions in my life. Anyway… research.

I’m not liking a lot of what I’m reading. Rather, I like a lot of what I’m reading but that’s not necessarily what I (we)… (Another digression) – My wife… er… soon-to-be wife is. Ok, I’ll get to that… Here. Her name is A_____. There. More on that later also. But I’m going to be writing in first-person. If A____ ever writes here, she will do the same.

Ok. So. Where was I… (oh yeah). What I’m reading out there in the land of “sex blogs” or “erotic” blogs or whatnot fall outside the scope of what I’d like this to be for a lot of reasons which I may or may not be able to articulate here. I can’t even tell you in a concise manner what this is going to be, yet. Here are a few things I can tell you.

This IS NOT going to be a link farm. Although I would like traffic, moving towards advertising, moving towards making money I am a patient man and plan to be very selective about the content I link to. One thing that’ really bothered me in my research so far are finding blogs and journals so riddled with advertising that I can’t easily find the content, or distinguish it from the the advertisements. When I advertise something here, you’ll know it. Furthermore, you will always be able to find the content. Lastly, there will ALWAYS be MORE content than advertising on this site.

I’m not sure how exactly I’m going to approach the things I’d like to talk about here, but I do know that what I tell you here will be true. I was disappointed to discover after reading a blog for a few days that the author says “This is ALL fiction.” Not that I won’t read it anymore, but it was a site that was being billed as someone’s life. When I read the fiction part the voyeur in me was, well, a bit upset.

In the above mentioned vein: I’m not going to lie or make stuff up here. I don’t feel like I need to in order to make this an interesting read. I feel like if I talk about my sexuality and the experiences that follow honestly, and include some of the relevant thoughts that traverse my head, this will be a place worth visiting again, if only to see what happens next.

Although it should be said, and I’ll make the necessary adjustments to the blog soon, that THIS BLOG CONTAINS ADULT SUBJECT MATTER and blah blah blah, I am hoping to be mindful of the language that I use here. Not for any other reason than I don’t like bad language – swearing – very much, and I find the “language of sex” to be vulgar, misleading and disappointing. But I’ll be discussing this particular bit at length some other time.

What else….

Oh, I’m not going to give you names or identification or anything like that. I believe that part of my ability to be open, vulnerable if you will, in a forum like this requires that I protect with anonymity everyone involved. Myself included. I’m not going to be all spy-speak and code geek on you. I hope to give you more than enough to know who I am (at least, this aspect of me). But really I don’t want to – intentionally or otherwise – meet any readers socially at this point. Kudos to the writers who are “open books” like that. I am not currently one of them.

As A___ would say; this little part of the internet is our Bedroom Closet.

Off to sleep for now. Good night

- S____