No way to say no
I’m not sure whether to talk about being bound, spanked or gagged first. They are all interrelated in some ways. Ava has spanked me (yesterday was the first serious one) while I was unbound, but I think the spanking would be less inhibited if I were spread out and tied to the bed. No matter what she chose to do to me I would not be able to resist and she would be less inclined to worry about me fighting. We’ve talked about bare handed, crop, hairbrush, belt… all deliciously appealing and frightening. Being tied takes away control when I would be most tempted to try to take it back, leaving me helpless to be beaten and used. Being gagged only adds to that because I can cry out; I can’t say no.
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now this is something I get, I feel the need to try these things even though I am not a total submissive if anything I consider myself to be a switch
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